Monday, July 10, 2006

When is the right time?

When is the right time?

So many times in life, we find ourselves asking questions. Why this and why that… I suppose a lot of you asked the following before, “When is the right time to say the words ‘I love you’?”

After recently getting involved in a relationship again, I found myself telling this person I love him. I suppose I do love him in a way, but is that real love?

Let’s take today for instance. I was watching a DVD in bed. And I was flirting with my new boyfriend. Then next moment he tells me, I am off to have a few drinks with a friend. This was 15:42 (believe me on the times, I keep track of that.) I mean, talk about turn off. I immediately was pissed off. But little did I know what was to come. I told him Ill email him later on. And so I did. (Yeah yeah his was a naughty mail) And he replied, I’ll download your mail when I am home.

Ok, it’s getting hot in here, so turn off all your phones! I said, sure. Whatever! And the next thing I notice, he did read the email.

Ok, after a while, I got a message, (19:16) that he is going for dinner now. Does it take guys three hours and thirty four minutes these days to have a drink with a friend?

Ok, now the boyfriend stays in Sandton. That is about 20minutes drive from Melville, where I am staying. The next message I receive (20:43) was that he is going to have dinner in Melville. I mean, now it takes one hour and twenty seven minutes to drive to Melville.

Did I say I love this guy?

I may be weird. I don’t know. In previous posts I did say I do not want this outgoing boyfriend again. And I did step in the same trap again. I am falling for this party animal.

It is now 21:50, time is getting shorter I think. Now it takes a guy five hours and fifty eight minutes to have a drink and dinner. Oh, and just for the record, they are still eating.

PS. I made a note. In my next post I promise to tell you guys the time he left for home. Oh, and I do love this man. I just don’t think he knows it yet. That is probably why he is out and not spending time with me.

Oh, by the way. The time was 22:45

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