The three foundation words of a relationship.

Trust (topic today)
Commitment/Love (next blog topic)
Loyalty (wait for this in the near future)

First, I have to say. This in only my opinion, and if you do not agree with it, fine, but do not hate me for being unique!

I think there is a few factors that is a MUST in any relationship as foundation. The first, and I think most important, TRUST...

Trust, I think, is when you let a person, to some extend, do what they want to do. And then not doubting their loyalty(My next blog entry). But in todays world, can you trust people? They go to clubs, they party etc.

In my last relationship the 2nd party was a clubber. There was trust, to some extend, but then I heard stuff that the person cheated one me. Picked other men from the clubs and then had sex with them.

My trust were broken and thats why I ended the relationship. And worst of all. The person confessed. That person did cheat on me.

Will I be able to trust after this? I hope. And I think so.

When you are in a relationship. Trust doesn't come from self. It has to be earned! You have to work for it, and when you have it, don't do something and spoil it. Because then it will never heal again.

Like the well known boyband, Westlife says, "Though you want to. Though you try to .You can't stop the rain. For the first time. It's not you who can heal me!"

Ok, so you cannot heal me... then who can? Well if you need to heal broken or lost trust, I think time only heals. You cannot force yourself to trust someone and that is why I ended the relaitionship. the trust is gone and I will never in my life trsut that person again. Now I am looking forward and continue with life. Finding someone new, and then trust that someone with my whole heart.

Come back soon. I'll have the new topic posted!
Thank you once again for reading.
MJ