I don't want a clubber...

After recent events I decided to go to Plettenburgbay for a week. Just to relax and think… AGAIN! As I’m sitting here, staring over the ocean I was thinking about what happened last night. I was at The Islander, having dinner and afterwards went to the beach. As I returned home, I saw the five messages including a missed call and a voice message. As I read through them (all from the new ‘love’ of my life) I actually saw he is a really nice and passionate guy. Full of love and emotion. I replied with tears in my eyes to the messages of him… I only listened to the voice message after my reply…

The message goes, “I slept the whole day because I was out last night and only arrived early this morning…”

I don’t want a clubber again. Not to mention I only found out 24 hours after the event. Seems this is an endless battle being fought by all gay men. – You are allowed to date a guy, but be happy with him a) Clubbing, b) Not involving you, c) Make if everything is fine with it. – I don’t want that.